“The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I don’t need you!’ And the head cannot say to the feet, ‘I don’t need you!’ (I Corinthians 12:21)”
It is possible to live, work, and play among many people and still be alone. I know this because for many years I was that man. From the age of 12 when my mother died, I made an unconscious decision to need no one and could do everything on my own. In my mind, I had two choices- live as a victim and whine about my difficult life or get through life on my own. The problem was, for many years I wasn’t aware of this mindset until God revealed it to me, required me to face it, and, by His grace, overcome it. Being healed from that mindset was a life-changing experience.
Many people today attend church and do the “Christian thing”, but they don’t want anyone to get too close. They manipulate their lives in such a way leaving an excuse to keep others at bay. While we all have the choice to live this way, it is not the way we were created by God to live. Additionally, living that way guarantees we will not reach our full potential as an individual.
Whether we like it or not, we need others to be complete, especially if we accept God’s call to be warriors in this life. We are created this way. We are a part of the Body of Christ. When we find our part, life for us will change for the better, and we will be more fulfilled than we can imagine.